Posted on October 21, 2025

I recently dove into *The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More and Change the Way You Lead Forever* by Michael Bungay Stanier, and it was truly inspiring!

This book reveals seven essential questions that can significantly elevate your leadership style. Here are a few standout insights that really resonated with me:

* **Embrace the power of silence.** Instead of rushing to fill pauses with more words, try asking a question and allowing silence to linger just a bit longer. It might feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but take a deep breath and hold that space. You'll be pleasantly surprised by the amazing insights that emerge when you give others the chance to think deeply.

* **Ask questions instead of offering solutions.** I've found that when we encourage others to think for themselves, they often uncover their own answers. While it can be tempting to jump in with advice, creating an environment where individuals feel empowered to trust their own judgment is invaluable.

* **Opt for "What" instead of "Why."** Framing your questions with "What" fosters more thoughtful discussions. Instead of asking why someone made a decision, try asking, "What were you hoping for?" This shift not only prompts exploration of their goals but also opens the door to discovering new paths to success.

I encourage you to read the book which can genuinely transform how you connect with and inspire those around you!